The Best Jeans For Your Body

When shopping for jeans, do you feel like you spend a lot of time with few successes? Trying on pair after pair of ill-fitting jeans can be a rather deflating experience for your ego. If you know your body type, however, and the styles that flatter it best, you can save loads of time and self-esteem. To figure out which jeans will work for you and help to cut down your shopping time, read on.

cut to the chase

Straight cut

Straight-cut jeans typically sit at your natural waist and are slim through the seat and thighs. The fabric should skim your silhouette and the leg should be long, tapering off gradually and slightly at the ankle. This style of jean is classic, and if you have the body to wear them, straight-cut jeans can pretty much be paired with anything.

Flare cut

Also known as boot-cut jeans and originally designed to be worn with cowboy boots, this cut is very flattering for many body types. Typically, flare-cut styles should sit just below your natural waist and should be slightly loose through the leg. From the knee to the ankle, these jeans become slightly wider or "flare" out. A bonus is that these jeans will never go out of style and it’s so easy to dress them up for a date or the office.

Wide leg

Like flared jeans, wide-leg jeans often sit at your natural waist or just below it, but the seat and thighs of these jeans will have a relaxed or quite loose fit. Back pockets may be larger and deeper on this style of jean. Wide-leg jeans usually have a straight, slightly tapered cut from the thigh to the ankle, but they are very loose through the leg so that the shape of your body is not as easily discernible.

Low rise

The defining feature of low-rise jeans is that they sit below your natural waistline, often on the hip bones. Low-rise jeans can be straight cut, slim fit, bootleg or wide leg. It’s best to wear low-rise jeans with a longer shirt, otherwise your midriff will be visible anytime you move your arms -- while girls might be able to get away with belly-baring jeans and short T-shirts at the bar, this look is never a good one for men.

Now that you know all about cuts, find out which one suits your body best…

it’s in your jeans

Tall and lean

Straight-cut jeans will

flatter this body type best. If you are blessed with a great physique, jeans with a flat front and straight leg will show off your body to its best advantage. Boot-cut jeans are another option for this body type -- particularly if you have wider hips -- as a flared cut will balance your shape, creating a straighter, streamlined look. Tall and lean men can also carry off wide-leg jeans, but be aware that they will look very casual on this body type and are therefore better-suited for weekends than the office.

Slender

If you are slim and of average height, avoid jeans that adhere too closely to your body unless you like the starving-artist look. Steer clear of wide-leg jeans as well, as you risk looking lost in your clothes. For your most flattering look, choose straight-cut, low-rise jeans that sit comfortably and low on the hips with a couple of extra inches of room through the leg. Slightly flared jeans also flatter slender figures by creating the illusion of a better defined silhouette. For a more ample-looking rear, look for back pockets with flaps or extra material as this will add bulk to your behind.

Athletic

Athletic and muscular types look best in jeans with a wider leg since looser cuts show off the shape of a toned body. Jeans cut too close to the body are not as good a choice for muscular shapes as they can make muscles appear overly bulky. Wider-leg jeans, however, will subtly show off all your hard-earned gym work. Additionally, to show off your butt or give it a more round shape, choose back pockets that are smaller and further apart.

Heavy-set

Larger frames should stay away from flare-cut jeans as these jeans will make heavier men appear larger. Wide-leg styles, however, are really great for concealing physical flaws. If there is a little more of you to love, this style will hide love handles and thick waists. Be careful not to choose styles that are too baggy, however, as they will make larger bodies appear even larger. Instead, choose a loose shape with a few extra inches of room to show the shape of your body without hugging your frame too closely. As well, larger, deeper pockets will make your butt look smaller and are therefore a good choice for heavier frames. Another way to conceal a larger behind is to look for pockets that are closer together.

doing denim

Hopefully by now you have a better idea of which jeans are suitable for your body type and your next shopping trip should be much more efficient. A word to the wise: Once you find jeans that fit you perfectly, buy more than one pair. Get rid of other jeans that don’t fit as well and replace your new jeans with a reserved pair about once a year when they fade and the bottoms become scruffy.

10 Habits That Improve Your Appearance

10 Habits That Improve Your Appearance

The desire to look good is in our nature as human beings. After all, attractive people are more popular with members of the opposite sex and some studies suggest they're financially more successful, too. Of course, there are an overwhelming number of things and products you can try in your quest to be the best version of yourself. What really works, however, are these top 10 habits that improve your appearance. Adopt these habits today and you'll see a noticeable improvement in your appearance in two weeks' time.

No.1 Consider exercise non-negotiable

The No. 1 way to improve your appearance is to get fit. Start thinking of exercise as a must-do item on your to-do list and you'll slow down the aging process, get better-looking skin, increase your confidence, and on top of everything, you'll feel amazing. Engage in physical activity in the morning, and you'll benefit further by burning more fat and kicking off your day with a feel-good endorphin rush. An early sweat session will also boost your circulation, so you'll have clear, bright skin all day long -- a potent sign to women that you're a virile, healthy bedmate.

No.2 Drink eight glasses of water a day

Staying hydrated keeps you healthy and reduces the appearance of wrinkles. Sipping water slowly rather than pounding it also makes it easier for your body to absorb. Additionally, be mindful of your caffeine and alcohol intake. Both substances are diuretics, meaning they cause your body to release water, which can translate into pasty, dry skin and more visible fine lines. Offset your consumption of these beverages by drinking an 8oz glass of water for each caffeinated or alcoholic drink you indulge in.

No.3 Get eight hours of sleep

Those seven to nine hours that you should be spending unconscious every day are when your body repairs itself. Skimping on this vital restorative process makes your entire system run less efficiently, and the signs of sleep deprivation show up on your face first. In fact, all it takes is a few nights without enough sleep before you start looking like a haggard zombie. On the other hand, prioritizing sleep will guarantee you appear refreshed and alert and it will also decrease puffy eyes and unflattering dark circles

No.4 Avoid sugar and simple carbs

A diet that's high in lean protein, vegetables, slow-digesting grains, and healthy fats is one that will reduce bloating in your belly and decrease any puffiness in your face. Furthermore, steering clear of sugar and simple carbs will go a long way toward eliminating acne or keeping it at bay as junk food, even in moderate amounts, is a common cause of troubled skin

No.5 Cleanse, moisturize, apply eye care cream, and use lip balm every morning

A basic skin care routine is an absolute must for improving your appearance. Start with a mild cleanser, preferably one with a 2% concentration of salicylic acid to help zap zits. Follow it up two to three times a week with an exfoliant to really get the gunk out of your skin and slough off dead cells. Next, apply a moisturizer that contains a broad-spectrum SPF to replenish your skin's moisture levels and prevent aging related to sun damage. Then dab on an eye cream, working from the outside in toward the center of your face, to hydrate and keep the thin skin in this region supple. Finally, slick on a lip balm with an SPF of 15 to keep your lips soft, smooth and kissable

No.6 Shave after showering

Steaming up your bathroom is a bit like creating your own personal sauna. This humid environment will open up your pores, make your facial hair softer and plumper, and prime your follicles, all of which will reduce your chances of developing ingrown hairs and experiencing razor burn. If you don't have time for a shower, create a hot compress by soaking a face towel in hot water and then applying it to your face for two to three minutes

No.7 See a barber every three to six weeks

Keeping your hair trimmed is an easy way to ensure that you always look polished. It's also typically inexpensive and quick. Once you've found a barber you like, stick with him so that he'll always get it right when you come in for a cut.

No.8 Floss every day and whiten teeth every six months

For a more attractive smile, nothing beats regular flossing as it gets rid of any unsightly buildup between your teeth. Take things one step further by using a drugstore whitening kit, which will do an excellent job of noticeably, but not freakishly, lightening the color of your teeth. Just make sure you whiten no more than once every six months or you could develop sensitive gums. For a week after whitening, avoid consuming products that could stain your teeth, such as red wine, coffee and soy sauce, and brush your teeth as soon as you can if you slip up.

No.9 Shampoo no more than once a day

Ideally, you should wash your hair no more than a few times a week as over-shampooing can strip your hair of its natural oils, leaving it dull and brittle. If you're a regular exerciser, however, you can't get around lathering up on a daily basis, so make sure to follow up with an intensive conditioner. For men who can't get morning workouts in, skip the shampoo session if you shower in the a.m. and suds up only after you exercise later in the day

No.10 Change your bedsheets

Dirty pillow cases are a prime reason for breakouts, so switching your sheets once a week will reduce your skin's contact with pore-clogging grime. It's particularly important to lay out some fresh bedding if you frequently have a female in your bed, as residue from women's makeup and hair products can get left behind on your sheets and subsequently be transferred to your face.

10 Proven Benefits Of Looking Your Best

10 Proven Benefits Of Looking Your Best

Not even the most ardent believers in equality or the notion that a book cannot be judged by its cover can reasonably refute the power of appearances. We draw several conclusions about others within seconds of first meeting them, conclusions we will find hard to shake in the future, even if we see evidence to disprove them. Yet, when these conclusions are positive ones, when through our appearance we send visual cues that people receive in a positive light, something amazing happens, what researchers term the "halo effect." According to the halo effect, when people pick up positive visual messages and cues from your appearance, they will assume that other aspects about you are equally as positive. This snowball effect has the capacity to transform your life, and you can get it rolling simply by looking your best.

To that end, we've gathered together a top 10 highlighting the benefits of being as attractive as you can be and looking your very best -- benefits that aren't just assumptions or common sense, but ones supported by independent data

No.10 Boost Your Salary 5%-10%

According to "Beauty and the Labor Market," a paper by Daniel Hamermesh and Jeff Biddle that was published by the National Bureau of Economic Research, men who are attractive enjoy a premium on salaries, upwards of 10%, compared to their less appealing colleagues, a finding largely independent of occupation.

So can looking your best really make an impact on your current salary? There is only one way to find out: Upgrade the way you present yourself at work.

No.9 Get A Second Interview

A guy can rely on his persistence and on the strength of his resume when landing an initial job interview, but assuming he's qualified, what factor may end up being the tipping point? The thing that either lands that second interview or sinks any chance of it? You guessed it: personal appearance.

According to a study reported on by corporate image consultant Susan Bixler in The New Professional Image, the No. 1 reason given by over 150 employers for rejecting a job applicant following the first interview was poor personal appearance

No.8 Land A Higher Starting Salary

A researcher from Fairleigh Dickinson University wanted to know if appearances would have any influence over starting salaries offered by employers. To find out, she sent identical resumes to over 1,000 employers asking what starting salary would be offered. Half of the resumes included a picture of the "applicant" before being made over and given a more professional and polished look, and the other half included a picture showing the person with the polished look.

The applicant with the polished, professional appearance did much better than his mediocre self, receiving starting salary replies upwards of 20% higher than his counterpart.

 

No.7 Be More Persuasive

You would think that nothing could be more persuasive or succeed in changing the minds of others than an airtight argument presented in a marching, logical fashion. This does not appear to be true; rather, some studies have shown that appearance alone is more than enough. Attractive people, by virtue of their appearance alone, have been found to be more persuasive (especially in the advertising setting) than their unattractive counterparts. Curiously, people tend to confer upon attractive people the quality of being an independent thinker, someone whose opinion is beyond undue influence.

 

No.6 Enjoy Greater Credibility

People who are perceived as more attractive than others are also regarded as being more credible and more reliable than their less attractive peers. While this is difficult if not impossible to accurately quantify, studies carried out by researcher A.G. Miller on the formation of impressions in others showed that attractive people are perceived as having a sense of purpose to their lives and act according to their will and conscience, lending them a greater degree of credibility in the eyes of others.

No.5 Amplify How Others Percieve Your Accomplishments

Attractive people do not, as a rule, perform tasks or projects at work or elsewhere any better than unattractive people. Yet the work of two economists, entitled "Why Beauty Matters," showed that people do not perceive things in such an unbiased manner. Rather, they tend to have higher expectations from attractive people and they tend to overestimate their productivity.

In other words, simply by amping up your appearance, you can amp up how people perceive the things you do.

 

No.4 Raise Your General Self-Confidence

No one disputes the incredible effect self-confidence can have on a guy. People are drawn to confident people, and when they find it in others, they buy into it. Now, there are several ways to gain self-confidence, and one of them is in presenting yourself in the most attractive manner, in part because it'll make you feel good but also because, according to published estimates, we have the occasion to see our reflections in windows, mirrors and other surfaces as many as 50 times a day. What is the effect on self-confidence and behavior if one's reflection is showing a guy who you know could be a whole lot more attractive if he just put a little extra time and effort into it?

 

No.3 Be A Happier Person

Can being the most attractive person you can be also make you a happier person? Though this is the only entry on our list not directly supported by data, this benefit is nonetheless backed up by a preponderance of evidence, namely by the many other benefits named in this list: earning a better salary, enjoying more self-confidence, being regarded as credible and authoritative by others, having your accomplishments viewed in a light that perhaps is more aligned with your own perceptions of them. All these things necessarily point towards a happier, more fulfilled person -- and it's all simply from paying closer attention to the way you present yourself to others.

 

No.2 Make Better First Impressions With Women

Every spring, Maxim publishes its Sex Survey, polling several thousand women on a variety of topics relating to sex and relationships. The most recent survey, which arrived in the April issue, included the following question:

"What's the biggest potential turnoff when first meeting a man?"

The top answer, given by 36% of responding women, was bad hygiene. And while bad hygiene can refer to many things -- bad breath, ill-fitting clothes, unkempt hair -- all those things can be nullified by presenting the best possible version of yourself

 

No.1 Expand Your Network

Arguably the best benefit of being as attractive as you can be is the ability to expand your network professionally and personally -- an ability that can be seen as the sum of all the other benefits, since it is through networking that we are introduced to new, interesting and potentially influential people. Researcher Karen Dion and her colleagues found that people seek out and expect to find more socially desirable traits in attractive people -- traits such as strength, sensitivity, poise, modesty, and character. Such a perception will undoubtedly draw people to you, allowing you to expand your network and open up new and exciting avenues in your life.

 

How to Dress Like a Model

How to Dress Like a Model

You've realized you can look hot, but aren't sure how to make the most of it? Okay gentlemen, it's time to look hotter than the others.

 

Steps

1.  
   Grab a mirror and take this article with you. We're going to take a closer look at you.
    
2.  
   Examine your face: Your face needs to be cleanly shaved, unless you've been told that a little bit of facial hair is cute on you (but only a little).
3.  
   How do your eyebrows look? Brows need to be filled in with brow pencil or tinted, brushed and trimmed, keeping the natural faint arch. No tadpoles or shapes please.
4.  
   Look at your facial shape. Pick a hair style that complements it. If you have a squarish jaw or round face then a soft layered cut is best.
5.  
   Oil is always a great option. Who wouldn't love to open up their favourite magazine and see an oiled up hunk staring hotly into the camera? Little children, but that's not important. So make sure you take a bath in oil (vegetable oil works best), and you'll be slipping and sliding into the hearts of young women everywhere.
6.  
   Always wear a bowtie, preferably red. This make you seem more sexual as red is a colour that has been proven to turn women on. The fact that you are wearing a bowtie makes you seem more professional, a professional hottie in other words.
7.  
   Simple: wear the tightest underwear that s humanly possible without the risk of your 'little guy' falling off...and then a little bit tighter. This clearly defines the very essence of how manly you are. If you are too womanly for your liking, grab a pair of gym socks and stuff in into the underwear. This is what professional people do.
8.  
   Remember; working out is key. If you want to look good with a model like appearance you must have a body to suit.
    

 Tips

• Body: do you have long legs or short legs?
  • If short, you can wear shirts loosely tucked in with tight dark pants or jeans and a darker coloured belt. Also look out for the 3/4 sleeve shirts. Shorter jacket styles look good too eg:(leather bomber). Pinstripes and prints both top and bottom work well too. Choose dark shoes that are shiny and tapered toward the toe, to visually lengthen.
    • Note:The 'Pea coat' is flattering on most body types.
  • If long, you can have long coats, untucked shirts, 'bootleg' cut jeans, long scarves that hit thigh length and skin tight t-shirts.
• Are you skinny or muscular?
  • If skinny, you can wear horizontal stripes, skinny leg jeans, wide belts, double breasted jackets/coats, and sweaters with stripes at chest and shoulders. Look out for details like epaulets because they look good on as well (military styles).
  • If muscular or overall broad build, you will look best in single button coats/jackets. Deep v-neckline in t's, shirts and zip up hoodies. Avoid detail over shoulders and horizontal details.
• Colours etc: look at your eye colour, if blue then get shirts that bring out that colour best(grey,blue,black,purple) If green wear bright green and yellow tones and if brown then wear red and icy pastels. This goes for beanies/hats and scarves as well.
• Bling:-simple pendants, a tooth,cross,pearl,diamond,tag or coin on fine chain or leather string,cuff band,cuff links or knuckle duster ring. Only wear all silver or all gold accessories at once.
• Hats: wear the latest styles, wider brimmed hats on slim faces and shorter brimmed hats on rounder faces. Make sure it fits your head well.
• All together now: All clothes should be clean and pressed. No fraying or loose threads. T-shirts,jackets tank tops and jeans need to be close fitting ALWAYS(its way more flattering). Mix formal with day-wear.eg formal blazer with jeans etc.
• Look at second hand stores for Blazers and chain stores for the latest fashion shirts and belts if you're on a budget. Wear t-shirt scarves in summer and long scarves in winter.
• Model outfit examples:A singlet with an unbuttoned shirt,a fitted hoodie under a leather jacket,3/4 sleeve shirt under fitted vest and jeans.
• Fragrance: has to be designer or as good as
• Shoes: polished
• Hands: trim nails and clean
• Teeth: clean and white
• Lips: moisturized
• Skincare:light facial scrub once a week,moisturizer if needed
• Makeup:(not compulsory) Tinted darker lashes and brows,light spray tan,concealer on blemishes.
• The WALK: shoulders back, chin up and walk proudly, with fingers in loose clench. Have a slight smile on as well;)

 Warnings

• Make a commitment to yourself to look HOT!
• If other men insult you, remind yourself that they're not gutsy enough to look their best, but YOU are!
• Taking on these tips will make you feel better about yourself when out and about and will attract the right attention.
• Flip through GQ magazine or look at celebs your age to see what the latest styles are.
• Remember to get dark denim, because it holds a higher aesthetic value.
• Don't hide behind your hair.
• Get enough sleep.
• Now that you look nice don't be stuck up about it, girls hate that.
• Taking drugs, binge drinking and chain smoking will hold you back from being and looking your best.
• Also present yourself, don't hide from the crowd, but don't act as a fool.
• Relax and breathe.
• Do not wear make-up unless you are absolutely comfortable with it.

 Things You'll Need

• good eating and exercise habits
• a mirror
• a confidence to look better
• facial scrub for once a week
• safety-razor or electric razor

How to Become Sexy

How to Become Sexy

Is there a beautiful girl in your class who you would like to go out with? Is there somebody at work who has caught your eye? If so, here's a few steps to help you get sexy.

 Steps

Confidence

1.  
   Have confidence in yourself. It's no secret that people love guys who are confident. It lets you be that cocky, grinning and attractive man that you know you can be. Consider these ideas for growing your confidence:
   
   
   • Accept yourself. Remember, if you're going to try to convince other people that you're amazing, you have to be the first person to buy into it. Stop obsessing over your flaws, and focus on your best traits. Even if there are things you'd like to change about yourself, acknowledge that you're a work-in-progress and
   • There is a big difference between being confident and being arrogant. Arrogance can be interpreted as being confident in a way that's negative toward others. Confidence is almost always positive.
2.  
   Be the sexiest version of yourself. Move powerfully by taking slightly longer steps, and work on not fidgeting. Keep your head movements and hand movements a little slower in social situations and you'll look more confident in general. Don't stress too much about posture, the guy with his back completely straight in his chair just looks strange.

Grooming & Hygiene

1.  
   Make sure you have good hygiene
   • Taking a shower every day to every three days is mandatory. If you aren't sweating a whole lot, two days is pushing it, and even if you aren't sweating a lot at the three day mark you should take care of it regardless.
   • Brush twice a day, and floss once a day. People don't take this seriously enough and soon come to regret it. If your teeth are more than a tiny bit crooked, you should consider orthodontics. A straight smile makes a big difference.
   • Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships and relationships. Most deodorant doesn't smell enough to ever be "Too much". Apply liberally and make sure you get antiperspirant deodorant every time, it'll save you shirts in the long run.
   • Cultivating a scruffy look, especially at an early age til the time you are hitting middle age can be very successful. This does not count those dirty looking mustaches you see from time to time, shave that if you have it.
   • Pluck your unibrow or shave it, either way keep it off your face if you have one. No exceptions.
   • Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up both red acne and blackheads. However, if you are a teenager a little acne is totally normal. If you're having trouble with blackheads, get anything with "Salacylic Acid" in it in a 1%-3% concentration and follow the directions on the bottle. If you're having trouble with mostly red acne, grab a tube of Benzoyle Peroxide 8-10%. Both of these are very cheap (Ten bucks and under) and last weeks. They are the same ingredients as "Proactive" which runs for prices much, much higher.
   • Using cologne to your advantage is a smart move, but don't do it like one of those "BROS" with an axe bottle. Get yourself a container of a decent cologne that you enjoy at a department store. Spray it once on your hand and rub your neck with it, wipe the excess on your wrist. That's it, you're good. Much more than that and people will find you annoying rather than good-smelling.
2.  
   Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also, do not wear pants that show a lot of boxer. This is not sexy. It is gross to almost all girls. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This does not look good.

 

Conversation

1.  
   Conversation is a cruel mistress who will never fail to frustrate and surprise you. She also holds the keys to all the beautiful women beyond her doors. The most important things to do are to open fearlessly, watch her body language and realize that it takes lots of practice. Guides exist to help with the amount of practice it takes, but there is no substitute for going to the mall and anywhere else women gather to talk to them. Over, and over, and over, and... On to the next bit.
2.  
   Don't swear a tonne, but don't cringe either. Everyone does it, most people do it frequently including the girls you think are completely crazy attractive. Just keep it somewhere between classy and normal and you'll look good. Don't do it at all if you feel the need.

Good Humor

1.  
   be funny ! Women love a funny guy. Puff your chest out a tiny bit pull your head back. That's what cocky feels like; a little swelled up and goofy. When you mix a little bit of cocky and a little bit of funny, you can get amazing results. Women don't just appreciate humor, they appreciate humor along with sexiness and social tact.
    

 Tips

• Go a little slow at first but don't be shy. Women appreciate an aggressive man so long as you are not forceful and don't put off that "Creepy" vibe. Have her chase you, and do it fast. Consider opening doors and even pulling out chairs. Old school cheese still works magic. And remember, be honest. If you're just in it for the taco and she asks, maybe it's best to just say so. Maybe she's looking for something risque too.
• One no doesn't mean the end of the world, and remember, you don't need actual verbal confirmation of a no. Watch body language and how the conversation has gone to figure where you're at. A last-ditch effort for a shot at the dance doesn't work unless you go with a cocky and funny approach most of the time; sometimes it's better to retreat smoothly and talk again later, or switch subjects casually.
• Don't worry about washing your hair all that often if you've got very dry hair to start with. Talk to a stylist about what shampoo and conditioner would work best for your hair. It makes a big difference if you have more than an inch and a half.
• Having an activity or two that you enjoy a lot and are good at, or a big goal that you are making progress on can increase your confidence a lot. Video games don't quite count because unless she's into them, you can't humbly drop them into conversation as easy. It's better to have something physical and concrete that you're working on.
• Smile slow. Think back to every sexy man you've seen a movie; they do this slow slightly slanted smile combined with eye contact. Make your smile just a tiny bit slower and even if you aren't confident, you come off a little more like you are.
• Girls tend to go for guys that are socially connected and not completely shy. In high school a reserved approach will work, but working up courage and being at least somewhat direct and flirty will work better.
• Girls in other cliques are still options. Make sure you don't put on blinders and miss the good ones you aren't focused on.
• Girls respond well to light touches combined with eye contact that punctuate feelings in the conversation.
• Just because you're hunting for that popular girl doesn't mean that the complete babe with the pink hair isn't interesting too. Keep your eyes open!
• Bragging should be done lightly and mostly jokingly. Women pick up on when you're bsing a little better than men do for the most part, try particularly hard not to be obvious. Incorporate it into a story.
• All the females in your school know each other at least a little. Most of them know all of the other one's names. This means that if you do something awful or really stupid, word gets around. It also means that if you're awesome, word gets around. On top of this it means that having a hot female friend can play to your advantage! Don't COMPLETELY fear the friendzone!
• Every female is different. Go to an online dating site (Not to join for now, I'm assuming you're likely younger if you're reading this guide) and browse some females in the 18-20 range. You'll see the variety.
• Even if you're desperate, don't say that word in reference to yourself if you can avoid it and do your best not to look it. Go in looking for a fun time, many times you'll leave with one.

How to Be a Really Cool Guy

How to Be a Really Cool Guy

 

Do you want to be one of the cool guys? Mr. Smooth? Loved by everyone, really popular, and totally hot? Then this is the article for you!

Steps

Your Personality

Be friendly and authentic. Looks are important, but not nearly as important as being who you are. Learn to be less concerned with how you come off to other people and more concerned with having fun, joking around, being social, and doing what you want to do. If you can make anybody laugh, that's a great start.

Be social. Don't be fooled by the movies. Cool guys don't pose in the parking lot on their motorcycle until they're surrounded by women. Call up people, make plans, take risks, and make friends that you can trust and respect.

Take up space and time. Don't be afraid to take up space when you sit or when you move around. Don't be afraid to be louder, even though it will create some social pressure. When you speak, slow down your words to show that you value what you're saying and you're not worried that you'll get cut off. Make good (and fearless) eye contact. At the same time, know when to let other people take center stage.

Be confident. You could be amazingly good looking, but girls won't notice you if you speak timidly or have slouched posture. Hold your head up and your chest out, and look everyone in the eye. Work on your self esteem to get rid of any problems you may have with insecurity. This is not an overnight process, but you won't gain respect from others until you respect yourself.

Show an interest in others. Who wants to hear someone talk about themselves all the time? Find out what your friends are interested in or working on and ask them about it. This will earn you a reputation as someone who is caring and considerate.

Your Interests

Read a book. Read several books. Always have a good book at home that you are reading. Books can be a great ice breaker and can stimulate conversation at parties. Plus, someone who is well-read is always attractive.

Keep up on current events. You don't need to tear through several newspapers per day, but having a basic understanding of what's going on in the world will give you a reputation of being smart and knowledgeable, both of which are attractive qualities. This process can be as simple as going on Google News and reading two or three of the biggest stories each day.

Be active. You'll instantly be hotter if you're sporty. Join one or two sports teams and dedicate yourself to improving and being the best you can be. Sports are a great way to make new friends and bond with other people. Physical activity also releases endorphins which make you feel better, improving your overall mood and making you more appealing to hang out with.

Take up a new hobby. Interest groups are a great way to meet new people while learning something you enjoy. Art classes, volunteer programs and exercise classes at your local gym or YMCA are a great way to accomplish this.

Your Image

Make sure you're always clean. Have you ever met a cool guy who reeks of sweat and never brushes his teeth? Didn't think so. Shower everyday, use deodorant to cover up body odor, brush and floss your teeth twice a day and wash your hair regularly. Carry some mints or gum around with you to get rid of bad breath. Be sure to also wash your clothes regularly.

Look after your skin. Wash your face with warm water and rub on some moisturizer afterwards. If you have dry skin, moisturize with a product meant for dry skin. Avoid products with fragrances if your skin is sensitive. For oily and combination skin, use a moisturizer without alcohol and that is meant for oily/combination skin. For acne problems, Clearasil offers a number of products ranging from face washes to pimple creams.

Watch what you eat and drink. A healthy diet and drinking lots of water is also great for your complexion.

Have a cool style. Make sure your clothes fit properly and actually look good on you. Try to find colors or patterns that especially look good with your skin tone, and wear them most. Even a simple wardrobe like a t-shirt and jeans is fine as long as it fits and suits YOU. A silver chain adds a nice touch to a vest or T-shirt.

• If you need to go shopping for clothes, invest in only a few items of clothing of more expensive, higher quality clothing instead of buying lots of mediocre and cheap clothes.
• Mess around with different styles, and try to find the one that plays off of your strengths and identity (rocker, preppy, rebel, etc.)

Get cool hair. Just because you have nice clothes doesn't mean you can forget about your hair. Make sure it's in a style that suits you and that is comfortable and easy to maintain. Wash your hair regularly, and if it's short, try different hairstyles.

• If you need to get a haircut or want a new style, the best method is to splurge on an expert hair stylist once, take a picture of that haircut and get it done at cheaper places later on. If they style your hair in a certain way that you like, have them show you how to recreate that look on your own.

Tips

• Girls love to hang out with cool guys because they make them feel good, laugh and smile. Cool guys never judge, criticize, or argue with others.
• Do something with your style that makes you stand out, without going over the top.
• Making someone smile is not just cool but also a strong attraction to women. A guy with good sense of humor (but not using other people as a topic for laughter) is very cool.
• Don't be afraid of anything. Be spontaneous!
• Don't smoke. Girls hate smoke blowing in their face. It leads to bad breath, makes your clothes smell like smoke and is unhealthy overall.
• As you become popular and meet more people, don't forget about your old friends. They were there for you long before you were ever popular.
• The number one rule to being cool is to plain and simple know your the best. you don't have to say those exact words but show everyone that you think highly of yourself and they will follow.

Warnings

• Do not hit on every woman you encounter. This will leave you with a negative reputation.
• Do not get caught up in pettiness or rivalries. The best solution is to ignore this kind of drama and move onto something more worth your time.
• Cool guys don't put other people down to feel better about themselves. Even if these types of people are popular at one point, they will eventually lose friends and respect.
• Copying other people's style is okay, but only on the path to developing your own personal style. Any personal style or behavior that you have originally came from your observing other people, but eventually you should pick and choose what you want to adopt as your own.

How to Look Attractive

How to Look Attractive man  

 

You can't control your genes or your basic physical traits, but you can control how you use what you've got. Being attractive is a combination of several different factors, including grooming, personality and style. Here's how to stand out and be your best self.

Steps

Grooming

The easiest and most basic thing you can do to be more appealing is practicing good hygiene. Looking clean and smelling good will make people subconsciously want to be nearer to you. Use these steps to develop a daily routine.

1. Shower every day. Wash your hair thoroughly, and use a body wash or soap that has a fresh and clean scent.
   If you usually shower in the morning, consider getting a fogless mirror for your shower so you can wash your face and shave while you're in there.
2. Wear deodorant. Find a scent and strength that works for you, and put it on first thing after you get out of the shower. If you find that you get sweaty or smelly during the day, carry deodorant in your backpack or briefcase and reapply.
   • If you forget to put on deodorant before you leave the house, find some hand sanitizer and wipe it on your armpits — it'll kill the bacteria that produces body odor. You might have to reapply a few times during the day.
3. Wear cologne or body spray. How you smell throughout the day can make or break your attractiveness — if you get it right, people will be automatically drawn closer to you. If you get it wrong, though, it can have the opposite effect and actually repel people. Here are some basic guidelines to follow:
   • Don't wear too much. This is the most important thing about smelling good — it can't be too strong, because it's possible to have too much of a good thing. Even roses can smell nauseating if you take a big whiff of concentrated rose oil. Do two or three pumps of cologne maximum and only three pumps of body spray. Your nose will get acclimated to the scent and stop "smelling" it after a few minutes, but other people can still smell you.
   • Find a scent that works with your natural smell. Everyone's body chemistry is slightly different, and as a result not every scent fits every person. There are smells that "work" on some people and start to smell terrible on others. If you can, sample a cologne or body spray before you buy it. Wear it around for a day, and ask a friend to tell you how it smells a few hours later.
   • Try to match up your body wash and your cologne. They don't have to be the same scent, but they should be similar so that they don't produce a clashing smell.
   • Put cologne over pulse points. The parts of your body where large amounts of blood are flowing close to the surface, will be a little bit warmer throughout the day, which will heat up the cologne slightly and make it smell stronger. Common areas include the wrists, throat, and back of the neck.
4. Wash your face every morning and night. Men naturally have more testosterone than women, which is linked to an increase in pimples and outbreaks. Counteract this by taking care to keep your face clean.
   • Find products that are appropriate for your skin type. Here are the most common kinds:
     • Sensitive/dry skin: If your skin tends to be flaky and dry, or gets red and irritated easily, use an extremely gentle cleanser. Skip toner, and use a light moisturizer.
     • Combination/T-zone skin: If your forehead, nose and chin (or "T-zone") tend to be oily but your cheeks are dry, you have "combination" skin. Most people have this skin type, so look for a cleanser that's marketed for normal or combination skin. Use a gentle toner on your T-zone, and finish up with a moisturizer.
     • Oily skin: If your skin tends to be uniformly oily, find a clay-based or drying cleanser. Use a gentle toner everywhere on your face, and finish with a light moisturizer. If your skin feels oily during the day, pick up some face-blotting tissues from the skin-care section of the drug store and pat them on your skin in the afternoon.
   • If you have acne, use a salicylic acid face wash put benzoyl peroxide cream on pimples. If this doesn't help, see a dermatologist.
5. Shave or trim your facial hair. Whether you choose to be bare-faced or have a beard, the key is taking care to groom your facial hair every day.
   • For a clean-shaven look, shave every morning before you leave for work or school. Wet your skin first, and use a sharp razor and shaving cream. Shaving against the grain (that is, in the opposite direction of hair growth, from your jaw to your cheek) provides a closer shave, but results in more irritation. If you struggle with ingrown hairs, try shaving with the grain.
   • Manage your beard, mustache or goatee. Make sure the edges are neat and clean, and trim any hair so that it's uniformly long. When you're cleansing your face, pay special attention to scrubbing the skin beneath any facial hair.
6. Groom your eyebrows (optional). You don't have to pluck your eyebrows, but it might help you look a little more well-groomed overall. Here are some basic pointers:
   • Find a good pair of tweezers. The two prongs should meet completely — this will make plucking less painful and more efficient.
   • Use the rest of your face as a guideline. Find a pencil and hold it up to the edge of one nostril, so that the pencil crosses your eyebrow. Hair that runs past the pencil and into the "unibrow" zone over your nose should be plucked. Do this for the other side as well.
   • Clean up your arches. If your brows still look a bit bushy after you've plucked out the middle, you can try plucking a bit from beneath your arches. Remember, though, to only pluck beneath your eyebrows — don't pluck the hair above the brow.
7. Clean and trim your nails. Every two or three days, when you get out of the shower, take a minute to quickly trim up all 20 of your nails and clean out any dirt from beneath them. They'll be softer and easier to manage after you've been in the water for a few minutes. Both your fingernails and toenails should be trimmed short, so there's just a thin line of white above the quick.
8. Brush and floss your teeth. Combat bad breath and maintain a pearly-white smile by taking good care of your teeth.
   • Update your toothbrush. Your toothbrush should be replaced once every 3 months, or after you've recovered from a cold or other infectious illness. If the bristles are starting to splay out, you need a new one.
   • Floss every night. Not only does flossing get plaque and food out of your mouth, it's also thought to prevent heart disease.
   • Brush your tongue. Your teeth might be sparkling white, but you'll still be saddled with bad breath if your tongue is dirty. Using your toothbrush, make a few light strokes over your tongue whenever you brush. (Don't push too hard, or you'll damage the tissue).
   • Finish with mouthwash. Swish thoroughly for 20 seconds, and spit.

Styling Hair

1. Have your hair trimmed regularly. Even if you're trying to grow it out, it needs regular cuts to stave off split ends. You can visit a professional stylist, or cut it yourself. Either way, consider these schedules:
   • If you prefer to keep your hair short, aim to have it trimmed every 2 to 3 weeks. Make sure that you or your stylist shaves the hair that grows down the back of your neck.
   • If you're growing out your hair, have the ends trimmed every 4 to 6 weeks. Even if it's going to be covered, take care to shave the hair that grows down the back of your neck.
2. 2Wash your hair often. Washing hair every day works for most guys, but you could stretch it to every other day if your hair is particularly dry. Find a shampoo and conditioner that seems to work for your hair type. (If you struggle with having dry hair or split ends, look for a sulfate-free shampoo, without sodium laureth sulfate or sodium lauryl sulfate.)
3. Use hair products (optional). You don't have to use product to style your hair, but most people do. It can help your hair look shinier and healthier, as well as providing more hold and control. Here are some common products used to style men's hair:
   • Serums or creams. These can help you tame fly-aways or de-frizz curls without making your hair stiff and immovable.
   • Mousse. Use hair mousse to add volume and shine to your hair, with minimal hold. For best results, apply to wet hair and allow to dry.
   • Pomade, hair wax or hair clay. Use these products to mold your hair in to difficult-to-achieve shapes, such as pompadours or curls (for naturally straight hair). Be aware that it can take several washes to remove these products, so apply them lightly. A pea-sized amount should be plenty if you have short, medium or thin hair. Use pomade or hair wax for a shiny, wet look; use hair clay for a matte, natural tone.
   • Gel. Unlike pomade, gel contains alcohol that dries out hair and makes for a stiffer hold. For the strongest hold, apply gel to wet hair.
   • Hair glue. Ever wonder how some people get their mohawks to stand straight up? They're probably using some variation of hair glue, which provides the strongest possible hold. Be wary of product build-up, and wash hair thoroughly.
4. Comb your hair into a style that works for you. You might have to experiment a bit to find out what hairstyle best suits your face and your style, but eventually you'll settle into a look that works for you on a daily basis. Consider these options:
   • Part your hair. You can part your hair down the middle, to the side, or not at all. Try it a few different ways and see what you like.
   • Comb your hair in one direction, instead of parting, you can try combing the top of your hair in one way. If it's particularly short, try combing it forward; if its longer, you could comb it back or spike it up. Again, try out some different styles.
   • If you have longer hair, you can try pulling it back in a ponytail, styling it so that it hands in front of your face, or combing back and tying up just the top section.
5. Deal with balding (optional). If you're balding, it might be best to cut or shave your hair short, so that the difference between the two areas is less noticeable. Be sure to wash your hair right after exercising, as failing to do so is said to accelerate balding, and give yourself a nice scalp massage every time you shower.

Clothing

As they say, the clothes make the man! You don't have to wear expensive items to be attractive, but your clothing can communicate a lot about you. Consider building your wardrobe around these steps.

1. Wear clothing that fits. You could be wearing the most expensive suit in the world and still look awkward if it's too small or too large on you. Your clothes should fit you as well as possible, which in general means that the bottom of your pants should hit or cover your ankles, long-sleeved shirts should hit or cover your wrists, and the bottom your shirts should hit your hips.
   • Don't try to hide your body. Whether you're embarrassed about being too large or too skinny, trying to cover it up with baggy clothing only makes you look worse. You don't have to wear clothing that's completely form-fitting, but it shouldn't sag or leave too much space.
   • If you can't wear sizes off the rack, find an inexpensive seamstress or tailor. Maybe you have thin hips but long legs, and you can't find a pair of jeans that accommodates both. Buy clothing that's slightly larger than you need, and find someone to take it in so that it fits your measurements. Most dry cleaning businesses will do alterations for a fair price.
   • Throw out or donate clothes that no longer fit. You might love that old T-shirt from high school, but you shouldn't be wearing it if it doesn't fit.
2. Know how to highlight your best features. Here's a basic rule of getting dressed: light colors highlight, and dark colors obscure. For instance, if you like your shoulders but you're not as fond of your legs, you might try wearing dark-wash jeans and a light-colored T-shirt.
3. Figure out which colors look good on you. The right color will make your skin look awesome, while the wrong one can make it look washed out and sallow. Here are some basic tests to try:
   • Determine whether you look better in white or off-white. Try holding a stark white shirt up to your face, then an off-white shirt. If you're like most people, you'll look notably better next to one or the other. Once you figure it out, stick to what works.
   • Determine whether you look better in black or brown. This one isn't as clear-cut as white, but some people look notably better in black over brown, and vice versa. When you settle on one, don't mix the colors — for instance, don't wear brown shoes and a brown belt with black dress trousers. Wear black shoes, black pants, and a black belt, or all brown.
   • Try to figure out if you prefer "warm" or "cool" colors. Cool colors are generally based on blues, purples, dark greens, and blue-based reds, while warm colors are based on yellows, oranges, browns, and yellow-based reds. An easy way to figure this out is to find something that's blue-red, and something that's yellow-red, and hold them up to your face. Which one looks better with your skin tone? (If you need more help determining warm and cool colors, search online for a color wheel that demonstrates this.)
4. Stock your wardrobe with timeless basics. These pieces shouldn't fall out of style too quickly, and they should be made of quality materials that will last a few years. Pick up items such as solid-color polo shirts, solid or plaid button-up shirts, dark blue jeans, plain white and black T-shirts (without advertisements or graphic designs), a solid-color blazer, dark dress trousers, a dark and well-fitting jacket, lace-up dress shoes, and white sneakers. You'll always be able to put together a presentable outfit from these pieces.
5. Do laundry regularly. Some items of clothing can stand to go through several wears before they're dirty (such as jeans or jackets), but shirts, underwear and socks can only stand one wear before they need to be washed. Set up a regular schedule for doing laundry so that you don't spend the morning scrambling for something clean.

Having an Attractive Presence

1. Practice good posture. It might seem irrelevant, but standing up straight makes you seem confident and in control, which people do find attractive. Keep your shoulders squared, your spine straight, and try to center your hips over your feet. Walk with confidence and don't drag your feet or shuffle.
2. Smile. Offering someone a genuine smile is one of the easiest things you can do to seem instantly appealing. Practice smiling often, and try to get into a frame of mind where your grin is easy to trigger.
   • Develop a warm sense of humor. Find joy and laughter in the ridiculous aspects of life, and don't be afraid to point this out to other people. Try to keep your jokes free of references to bodily functions, sex acts, or disparaging other groups of people.
3. Make eye contact. When you're talking to someone (especially someone you like), demonstrate that you're interested and paying attention by making consistent eye contact.
   • Use eye contact to flirt. Throw several glances at someone sitting near you or across the room until he or she catches you. Maintain eye contact for a second, smile and look away.
4. Be a gentleman. You don't have to be a stuffed shirt to show basic care and consideration for other people. Say "please," "thank you," and "excuse me," and show courtesy by holding doors open for people walking behind you.
   • Be respectful of other people. Don't tear down other people's beliefs, and don't be unnecessarily rude to them. If someone tries to start a confrontation with you, walk away calmly — this illustrates that you won't sink to the other person's level.
   • Don't swear or make crude comments in public. It's fine to let your hair down a little bit around your guy friends or your family, but avoid talking this way around people you don't know well.
5. Know how to carry a conversation. Being a competent conversationalist can help people feel more at-ease and relaxed around you. Know how to casually inquire about how someone is doing, and let that lead into other topics of conversation. Ask open-ended questions (for example, instead of saying "Do you have any plans this weekend?", which can be answered with a simple yes or no, ask "What are you up to this weekend?"), and stay away from contentious topics such as politics and religion.
   • To sharpen your conversational skills, try striking up a chat with a stranger next time you're waiting around in public, such as at a bus stop or in line at the grocery store. If you can get a genuine smile and a few lines of conversation out of the other person, you're doing well.
6. Speak clearly and carefully. When you talk to other people, try not to mumble or rush your words. Form full sentences, and avoid opening your mouth before you've really thought about what you're going to say — it will save you a lot of potential embarrassment.

Taking Care of Your Body

1. Eat well. Sticking to a healthy diet can help you avoid bad breath and pungent body odor, as well as keeping you healthy and trim. Try incorporating some of these guidelines into your diet:
   • Avoid junk food and items that are high in sugar. These treats are fine every once in a while, but they shouldn't be an everyday thing. Try to limit modest amounts of soda, beer, candy bars, potato chips and other junky items to one "cheat" day per week.
   • Eat plenty of fruits and vegetables. You've heard it a hundred times, but eating plenty of raw fruits and vegetables is vital to a healthy diet. Consider trying to eat fresh fruit (such as apples, oranges and pears) as a snack, and try to eat at least one vegetable at both lunch and dinner.
   • Learn to prepare food. Start with simple things - boil eggs, make sandwiches and salads, cook burgers and steaks, heat frozen veggies, boil rice & pasta. It will save you money, improve your health and impress people!
2. Stay hydrated. Your body needs a lot of water to function throughout the day, so aim to get 8 full 8-oz. glasses of water every day. If you think water is too boring to drink, try club soda with a squeeze of lemon or lime.
   • You should be drinking enough water that your urine is almost always clear (except for first thing in the morning). If it's not clear, drink more.
3. Exercise. Consistent physical activity can not only help your body look more attractive, but it also lifts your mood and keeps you from getting sick as often. Set up a plan that works for you, and stick to it. Here are some suggestions to get you started:
• Do basic stretches, sit-ups, push-ups, and other exercises every other day. Stay consistent with the number of repetitions. Then, as your muscles improve, increase the number of repetitions you do and you will see results.
• Try different weight lifting plans. Try to do as much as you can, but don't over extend yourself, and give your muscles rest days to heal and build muscle. Working out every day may actually be bad for you! However, don't be afraid about becoming way too buff. Body-builders in magazines look that huge because lifting weights is the only thing they do for a living. It won't happen to you.
  • The primary core lifts are Bench Press, Squat, Military Press, Deadlift, and Curls. If you need more chest work, consider doing Incline Press. If you would rather do more explosive workouts, consider Power Clean, Push-press. If this still isn't enough, consider doing bar snatch, workouts w/jerk, hang clean w/front squat, or other dumbbell lifts. If you have a membership, great, use the bar primarily, and use machines such as lat pull downs to supplement.
• Walk, jog, ride your bicycle, or run for 30 minutes or for a mile or two as well. (If you ride a bike, run, jog, or walk to school or work, then you can get well-exercised just walking, jogging, running, or riding your bike. (This works on your stomach, legs, and back.) it will help your body system to be more flexible and more upcoming to objectives.
• Consider morning exercise. It can bring out your skin and make it look nicer throughout the day. Just make sure to take a shower after as well. Sometimes as you work out through-out the day you sweat.All that sweat would not smell nice. Taking a shower after a period of sweating to get fully clean would stop the odor.

 Tips

• If you get a one or a couple of pimples, don't obsess about it. Everyone gets at least a few during their development, as long as you don't act like it's a big deal, people won't notice them. For the occasional pimple(s), it's best just to forgo "Anti-Pimple" medication and limit yourself to simply applying a hot cloth to the pimples every few hours. Most pimples should only last a few days, unless the skin becomes irritated or infection sets in.
• Blow your nose. No one like guys sniffing, and most people will get disgusted if they see a booger up a guys nose. So to avoid this, take a handkerchief with you and make sure you use it.
• Don't try to be someone you're not. It's fine to explore different aspects of your personality, but don't try to force yourself to be the exact opposite of how you really feel. Being genuine is attractive, and people can tell when you're not being real. If someone can't respect who you are, then they aren't worth the time.
• Don't pay overly much of attention to your crush. This can come off as "stalker-like". Talk to her. If she doesn't like you, move on. Why waste your valuable time wanting what you can't have? If you act dignified and leave her alone, and develop interests in other people, she may like you later.
• While trying to impress a girl, never, under any circumstances, point out your flaws if she hasn't said anything. She most likely hasn't noticed, and you are lowering her opinion of you if you do so.
• Don't make your change to cool clothing sudden, as this will make you look like a poser. Make a gradual change over a period of a month and be sure you have the friends and the attitude to match.